Ann-Margret and Her

Text forwarded by D&S Grogan

and Bob Edwards

Richard, my husband, never really talked a lot about his time in Viet Nam other than he had been shot by a sniper.
He had a rather grainy, 8X10 black & white photo he had taken at a USO show of Ann-Margaret with Bob Hope in the background that one of his treasures.
A few years ago, Ann-Margret was doing a book signing at a local bookstore.

Richard wanted to see if he could get her to sign the treasured photo so he arrived at the book store at 12 o'clock for the 7:30 signing. When I got there after work, the line went all the way around the bookstore, circled the parking lot, and disappeared behind a parking garage.

Before her appearance, bookstore employees announced that she would sign only her book, and no memorabilia would be permitted. Richard was disappointed, but wanted to show her the photo and let her know how much those shows meant to lonely GI's so  far from home.

Ann Margaret came out looking as beautiful as ever and, as 2nd in line, it was soon Richard's turn.  He presented the book for her signature and then took out the photo with many shouts from employees that she would not sign it. 

Richard said, "I understand. I just wanted her to see it". She took one look at the photo, tears welled up in her eyes and she said, "This is one of my gentlemen from Viet Nam and I most certainly will sign his photo. I know what these men did for their country and I always have time for "my gentlemen".

 With that, she pulled Richard across the table and planted a big kiss on him.  She then made quite a to do about the bravery of the young men she met over the years, how much she admired them, and how much she appreciated them.  There weren't too many dry eyes among those close enough to hear. She then posed for pictures and acted as if he was the only one there.


Later, at dinner, Richard was very quiet. When I asked if he'd like to talk about it, my big strong husband broke down in tears. "That's the first time anyone ever thanked me for my time in the Army", he said.
Richard, like many others, came home to people who spit on him and shouted ugly things at him. That night was a turning point for him. He walked a little straighter and, for the first time in years, was proud to have been a Vet. 
I'll never forget Ann-Margaret for her graciousness and how much that small act of kindness meant to my husband. I now make it a point to say 'Thank  You' to every person I come across who served in our Armed Forces.  Freedom does not come cheap and I am grateful for all those who have served their country. 
If you'd like to pass on this story, feel free to do so.  Perhaps it will help others to become aware of how important it is to acknowledge the contribution our service people make.
God Bless Our Armed





Thank you C. T. Christopher for bringing this story to our attention.
We have done further research to determine if the above is true or false.  Here are our findings.
Origins:   Ann-Margret (born Ann-Margret  Olsson in 1941) caught the entertainment industry's eye while still a teen. Her vivacious spirit and startling good looks helped propel her into a successful career as an actress, singer, and dancer, but she was initially saddled with a sex kitten image that limited her to siren roles. With the help of her husband (Roger Smith of television's 77 Sunset Strip), she began to shake free of that perception during her thirties. She has been twice nominated for an Academy Award (Carnal Knowledge in 1971, and Tommy in 1975) and has been the recipient of numorous Emmys.

According to Bruce Thompson, webmaster of, the star's offical web site, the story is indeed true. His statement plus the knowledge that nothing in the tale runs contrary to the facts of her life is enough for us. She entertained the troops in Viet Nam as part of Bob Hope's troupe in the 1960s, and she did participate in a number of book signings at a variety of book stores when her biography, Ann-Margret: My Story, came out in 1994. (My Story made The New York Times best-seller list scant days after its release.)

Even today she is remembered fondly by those who served in Vietnam and who were lucky enough to be in the audience for one of her shows. In interviews with the press, she has spoken about former G.I.s who have stepped forward to thank her for taking the time to do her part back then. It's not too much of a stretch to think she would in turn be thanking them.

Barbara "any given Sunday" Mikkelson

Last updated:   18 January 2002